August 5, 2022

Dear Daddy: My mother doesn’t know that I saw her kissing a family friend and now I can hardly see in her eyes.

Mom has been a good friend of this woman since school days and when they both settled down and had children, our family did everything together.

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My mother did not know that I saw her kissing my married girlfriend

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We camped on the weekends, spent each New Year together, and lived constantly inside and outside each other’s homes.

I am a 22 year old man and my mother and her friend are 53 years old. I have a sister, 20, and a mother’s friend has 23 and 20 sons.

I was shocked to see them kissing – it was not a beak on the cheek. I was putting my shoes down the stairs when I looked up and saw them in the lounge.

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Catching her reflection in the hallway mirror, I saw her mother wrapping her arms around the other woman and cupping her boom as she pulled her mother in for a proper kiss on the lips. Is.

I started coughing to tell them I was there and they left immediately.

Mom and Dad separated three years ago, but the other woman is still with her husband.

I feel terrible knowing what I do. I loved this family and we kids often go out on our own.

His family has been such a big part of my life that I feel completely at odds.

Shall I talk about it? Or is it better to just keep schtum?

I thought mom and dad separated because they separated but maybe they ended up because dad knew mom was cheating on this woman.

I don’t really know what to think.

Daddy says: It doesn’t seem to be an option.

If your mother does not see that you have given up on her yet, she will do so soon.

You can speculate as you wish: this kiss could happen once, they could be in deep love and enjoy a long and secret relationship, or their relationship could be physical recently.

Maybe your father knew, maybe he didn’t.

But the only way you can make it clear is to talk to your mother.

So tell him what you saw. Explain how this knowledge has put you in a difficult position and is putting pressure on you.

Ask him out well if he is no longer absorbed in the connection. Ask him out well if he is no longer absorbed in the connection.

Encourage him to talk to a counselor as he will no doubt have to make difficult decisions.

My support pack counseling will help her find a reputable therapist. If you need to talk to someone, please contact them. themix.org.uk (0808 808 4994), which helps people under 25.

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